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A Woman’s Guide to Avoiding Common Estate Strategy Mistakes

Estate planning is a crucial aspect of financial security and legacy building, especially for women who often face unique challenges and considerations. Whether you’re just starting out or looking to refine your existing plan, understanding and avoiding common estate strategy mistakes can help ensure that your wishes are honored and your loved ones are cared for. Here’s a comprehensive guide to help you navigate the complexities of estate planning.

1. Failing to Have a Comprehensive Estate Strategy

One of the most significant mistakes is not having an estate strategy at all. Without a comprehensive plan, your assets may not be distributed according to your wishes and your heirs may face difficult decisions during an already challenging time.  This could lead to potential family conflicts and legal battles. Start by creating a detailed estate plan that outlines your intentions for asset distribution, guardianship for minor children, and care for dependents.

2. Failing to Consider Additional Documents

A will is essential, but it’s not the only document you need. Consider including:

  • Financial Power of Attorney: Designates someone to make financial decisions if you become incapacitated.
  • Advance Health Care Directive: Specifies your medical treatment preferences and appoints someone to make healthcare decisions on your behalf.
  • Living Will and HIPAA Authorization: Ensure your healthcare wishes are honored and medical information is accessible to your designated representative.

Without these documents, your family may face significant challenges in managing your affairs during times of incapacity.

3. Overlooking Trusts

Trusts are powerful tools that can help manage and protect your assets. They offer several benefits:

  • Avoiding Probate: Trusts can bypass the lengthy and costly probate process.
  • Providing for Dependents: Trusts can ensure that minor children or dependents with special needs are cared for according to your wishes.
  • Managing Family Dynamics: Trusts can help manage the complexities of blended families and ensure fair distribution of assets.
  • Tax Efficiency: Trusts can offer significant tax benefits, preserving more of your estate for your beneficiaries.
4. Failing to Consider the Impact of Taxes

Underestimating potential tax liabilities can put your heirs in a difficult position and it is important to understand that estate tax and income tax, are two wholly different taxes. 

Immediate consideration should include the impact of the upcoming sunset of the 2017 Tax Cuts and Jobs Act (TCJA) on December 31, 2025.  TCJA significantly increased estate and gift tax exemptions and many estates became non-taxable under the increased limits.  However, with the expiration pending of the TCJA, many estates that were previously non-taxable under the estate law, may now find themselves facing a stiff estate tax bill. Failing to consider this can result in higher estate taxes and reduced wealth transfer to your heirs. It is important to consider strategies that can help mitigate these impacts and ensure tax-efficient wealth transfer now, prior to its expiration.

5. Failing to include Non-Financial Assets

Non-financial assets, such as family heirlooms, sentimental items, and digital assets, hold significant value. Without clear instructions, these items can be lost, sold, or lead to family disputes. Create a detailed inventory and consider writing a letter of instruction to ensure these cherished items are distributed according to your wishes.

6. Failing to Provide Access to Digital Tools

Digital assets, including social media accounts, digital photos, and online banking, are an integral part of modern life. Without providing access credentials, these assets can be lost or mismanaged. Maintain an inventory of digital assets and ensure trusted individuals have the necessary access to manage these accounts.

7. Failing to Review Your Estate Strategy Periodically

Life circumstances change and your estate plan should reflect those changes.  Regularly reviewing and updating your estate plan is essential to ensure it reflects your current wishes and circumstances. It is recommended that a review should occur every 3-5 years or when a major life event occurs, such as marriage, divorce, the birth of a child, or changes in financial situation necessitate updates to your estate plan. An outdated plan can lead to unintended consequences and legal issues.

8. Adding a Child’s Name to Your Home’s Deed

Adding a child’s name to your home’s deed might seem like a straightforward way to transfer property, but it can lead to significant complications:

  • Loss of Control: As co-owners, children gain decision-making authority over the property.
  • Financial Risks: The property can be exposed to the child’s creditors or become part of their divorce settlement.
  • Tax Implications: This transfer can trigger gift and capital gains taxes, reducing the overall value of the inheritance.

Consider alternatives like a revocable living trust or a Transfer on Death (TOD) deed to achieve your goals without these risks.

9. Naming a Single Beneficiary

Naming a single beneficiary can lead to several issues:

  • Predeceased Beneficiary: If the beneficiary predeceases you, the assets may be distributed according to state intestate laws.
  • Family Conflicts: Other family members might feel excluded, leading to disputes.
  • Tax Burden: A single beneficiary might face significant tax liabilities.

Designate multiple beneficiaries and contingent beneficiaries to ensure a balanced distribution and mitigate these risks.

10. Failing to Communicate with Your Family

Failing to discuss your estate plan with family members can result in misunderstandings and conflicts. Open and honest communication ensures that your wishes are understood and respected. Consider holding family meetings or writing letters to explain your decisions. This can help prevent disputes and ensure a smooth transition of your estate.

11. Failing to Properly Fund Your Trust

Creating a trust is a vital step in estate planning, but its effectiveness hinges on properly funding it. Failing to transfer assets into the trust can lead to significant issues:

  1. Ineffectiveness: Without proper funding, the trust cannot manage or distribute assets as intended, potentially exposing these assets to probate.
  2. Loss of Privacy and Control: Assets not in the trust become part of the public probate process, losing the privacy and control a trust provides.
  3. Family Conflicts: Unfunded trusts can lead to misunderstandings and disputes among family members, complicating the administration process.
  4. Financial and Tax Implications: Properly funded trusts help manage estate taxes and protect assets from creditors, while unfunded trusts do not offer these benefits.

To ensure your trust operates as intended, it’s crucial to:

  • Identify and transfer ownership of all relevant assets into the trust.
  • Update titles and beneficiary designations accordingly.
  • Consult with estate planning professionals.
  • Regularly review and maintain the trust to include new assets and changes in your financial situation.

Properly funding your trust secures your legacy, provides peace of mind, and ensures your estate plan works as intended for you and your loved ones.


Estate planning is an essential process that ensures your assets are protected, your wishes are honored, and your loved ones are cared for. By avoiding common estate strategy mistakes and seeking professional support, you can create a comprehensive and effective estate plan that reflects your values and goals. Whether you are single, remarried, or managing a complex financial situation, professional guidance can help you navigate the intricacies of estate planning and secure your legacy for future generations.

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Failing to involve professionals in developing and implementing your estate strategy can result in missed opportunities.  Invest in your future today by consulting with a team of professionals who can provide the expertise and support you need. As financial professionals, we often act as the “quarterback” of your team and can assist in developing a plan that provides peace of mind, financial security, and a lasting legacy for you and your loved ones.